God's Divine Order of Marriage

Many of us have to unlearn and relearn a lot of things about marriage. Marriage is God's divine order, but we didn't see God's order growing up. God did not design marriage to be "Do as I say and not as I do." God's order is for the husband to lead, but the question is, where are you leading? What plan have you, the man, put in place for the family? Will this plan be productive for the Kingdom of God? The wife is to follow her husband as her husband follows Christ. For divine order to work, each must follow in order. If the husband is not following Christ, the woman cannot be order and follow Christ. Confusion follows.